There’s nothing like spontaneous sex to break you out of a relationship rut. Plan it, surprise him and enjoy the fireworks! :) 5. Say it with style - buy your lover something that he would never buy for himself (with a price tag within reason of course). These unexpected gestures keep the excitement alive and remind him how special he is to you. Thoughtful surprises whether intimate or material can transform routine days into memorable ones and keep the relationship vibrant for years to come.